Last Updated: October 26, 2015 14

Tips for Using the eHarmony Dating Site

Found In: Dating

We are living in a digital era where everything we want is available online. Whether it’s a recipe for a perfect pancake or your soul mate, you can find everything in a matter of few clicks. There are countless social media and online dating websites where you get to interact with people and know them better. With so much variety, it seems really difficult to manage all the accounts and figure out which one to trust. People make fake accounts and try to deceive you. Keeping in view ease of use, authenticity and usefulness, you need to say goodbye to all those tons of accounts on different websites and get started with eHarmony.

eHarmony is just another dating website out there, but it guarantees efficient results and ease of use for novice users. Its interface is pretty simple and you can communicate with the people like you very easily. The founder of their platform is a researcher and psychologist who believes that every person is made up of 29 dimensions and all of these dimensions determine their personality and compatibility with other people. This website works in a really nice way to determine your dimensions and find out the people who will likely to be the most compatible for you.

Unlike other websites, eHarmony does not rely on the information you have provided in your profile only. There are various easy to take personality tests for you. The answers of your quizzes and tests help to determine the 29 dimensions of your personality. Once the site knows about your dimensions, it will suggest you the other people based on your information. These will likely be the most suitable and compatible people for you. eHarmony has been the reason for more than 600,000 marriages which makes around 4% of total marriages in the United States.

In this tutorial, we are going to learn how to make a free account on America’s number 1 online dating website, eHarmony.

A broader look at how it works

Before we get into step by step procedure of how to use the site, let’s have a broader look on how it site works. It is a 4 step procedure.

  1. Setup a free account and complete your profile by answering basic questions. You can also take free personality tests to get your personality profile ready. Once you complete your profile, you will be able to see the highly compatible matches.
  2. Review the profile of your compatible matches and find your soulmate. This step is also free.
  3. Once you are ready to communicate with your desired match, set up an affordable plan and start communicating.
  4. Now, when you are already communicating, you can use your own creative ideas to say those magical words and impress your date. You can always plan a Meetup, date and share your personal information.

Signing Up

In order to start using this website, you need to make a free account on it. Do not worry, you will not be charged for testing out the website. Follow these simple steps.

  1. Log on to
  2. As soon as you land on the website, you will see a registration form. Before you fill out the form, scroll down to read about the website, its concept, owner and special features. Reading all that is not necessary but recommended for a better understanding. Now, come back to the form and write your first name, gender, expected partner’s gender, zip code and country respectively. Click on “Let’s Go” button.
  3. Here you will need to an enter email address and password. You will also need to tell how you got to know about the website. Do not worry, they will not include this in profile or judge you on that. Fill out the information and click on “Find Matches” button.
  4. You will see a welcome screen. Click “yes” button after reading the welcome text.

Completing your profile

Though you already provided you gender while signing up, you will again need to select your gender once you pass through the sign up procedure. Click on your gender button.

  1. Now, it’s time to select your date of birth. Be honest, while making your profile as this will be an honest foundation for your new relationship. Once you select your date of birth, your age will be displayed in the bottom right button. Suppose you are 24, you will see “Yes, I am 24” on the button. Click that button to proceed to the next page.
  2. Start typing your city and you will see a drop down. Select your region of the city and click continue button.
  3. Now this is a part where you want to select your relationship status. Be honest and select the right status. There are many people like you who will accept you and love you without any conditions. So being honest will be a good idea. Select your relationship status and you will be taken to the next page right away.
  4. Write the number of children you have. By default, it has “zero” value in it. If you do not have any children, leave it blank. Write a number in it and click continue button.
  5. Now you will see this screen. If you know someone who found success on eHarmony, click yes, If not, click no. This step is not going to affect your profile anyway. This is just their way of gathering data to improve their services.

Here is another question for their own analysis. If you have ever used any dating website before, click on yes, otherwise, click on NO. I am going to click on NO but if you click Yes, they might ask you about the website you used previously. Remember, they are asking for dating website, not your social media.
Finally, this questionnaire will be over and you will see a screen like this. Click on “Let’s Go” Button.


Personality Test

As you finish your profile, you will automatically be taken to personality quizzes. These will be the series of questions asking you about yourself. Start the quiz and answer the easy questions carefully. Be honest, while answering the question. The results of this quiz will help the website to determine your personality. Remember, you need to answer the questions based on your opinion and personality, not on your expected partner’s personality. If you are asked to choose a color, choose a color that you like. Do not choose a color that you want your partner like.
Once you finish answering one section, you will be shown a screen like this. Click proceed to initiate another round of questions.

Keep answering the short questions. You can take some time to think about yourself. Once you finish another section, you will see a question, “If your best friends had to pick four words to describe you, which four from this list would they pick?” To get the most honest results, ask your best friend to pick four characteristics for you while you do not watch them selecting those. Once 4 words are selected, click on “Good job, onward” button.
You will see a screen showing that you are 35% done on your way to the most suitable matches. The next section will be focusing on questions based on your lifestyle. Click “On to my spin of life” button to get started.

Similarly, keep on answering the questions about your lifestyle, hobbies, personality etc. and finish your personality profile. Once you reach 100%, you will be able to view your matches. However, you will not be able to communicate with them. In order to send them messages and communicate, you will need to select your plan and unlock the communication ability. As soon as you pay for your plan, you will be able to send messages and meet your matches. You might become the next lucky couple to get married and enjoy a stable and compatible relationship.

After you get married

After you meet on eHarmony and get married, you can share your story and pick up a free gift from eHarmony to remember and celebrate your precious moments of falling in love.